Hi Chayelle!
Thank you - you have given me so much food for thought and I LOVE that you have shared your opinions from 4 years of obviously in-depth research. As for me, I have only invested about 1 year of research so far on Class Bs (10+ years on RVs in general) but everything you've said resonates with what I have already found in Class Bs that look like they will (or will not) potentially meet my wants and needs.
I'm not up for doing a build myself - at least I don't think so as I'd be doing it myself, not much room to do it and mostly because I have VERY LITTLE patience and literally NO woodworking/electrical/plumbing skills! I find the PW and RT have thought of everything already.
I must ask could it be that your Nissan might be for sale by any chance?????

It sounds absolutely perfect and I am envious of how much you are enjoying it and that it truly meets your needs. THAT is exactly what I am aiming for. Also thank you for the tip on the Airtabs - excellent suggestion.
I've already ruled out the Class Cs after spending about 2 years looking at them! I just don't want to have a toad. I need to be able to drive all the regular places a car can go and also camp, tour, shop and whatnot. The Class B offers all of those advantages. I currently have a 29' Travel Trailer and although I love it for traveling with my husband and dog, it's just too big for me to take solo. Further, I am not really comfortable having my "getaway" truck separate from me while in the trailer if "getting away" was necessary at any point. And set-up, hitching, unhitching, leveling etc. isn't efficient for the "whatever/whenever/sightseeing/getting away" quick-ish stops I am hoping to create for myself.
I very recently *almost* completed the purchase of a Roadtrek 190 and spent a lot of time in it and driving it, so I do know that Class B is the exact right solution for me. Glad the purchase of the 190 didn't go through because the bathroom in that model would have driven me nuts with the two doors and being halfway in the aisle! (although I would be happy if I had gotten it cuz the price was fabulous, but there was too much rust discovered at the final inspection by the mechanic when it was up on the lift.)
I hate that I've truly had to prioritize the bathroom set-up because of my gastro issues I really need the privacy, quick access and do prefer some comfort - all of which the wide body set-up offers
You have so much wonderful knowledge and experience to contribute, I hope you will continue to do so as I am sure I am not the only one that finds your detail and information incredibly helpful! I've found that all forums in general have the typical conversations/debates re: diesel vs. gas, Chevy vs. Ford, even chocolate vs. vanilla etc. etc. etc.(!) I find them all informative for me to see what other people find that works for them, and they usually always help me to potentially re-think and either further solidify my direction or open my mind to something I hadn't considered before. It's all good!
Thank you again kindly for all your info, it is so helpful.
WISHING YOU A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR **WITH LOTS OF VAN TIME**!!