I decided to finally tackle installing the wiring for trailer towing after owning the 7-way outlet and T-connector harness for this model year van for 4 1/2 years!
Yup, I bought what I need for this job way back when the purchased the Class V hitch:
http://www.classbforum.com/forums/f6...-etc-1747.html
The problem has always been that on the two or so previous occasions that I attempted to start this job was that I could not find the connectors on the right and left sides of the van. There are lots of helpful videos and web guides out there but the wiring in my van wasn't in the same place.
I've come to the conclusion that the previous owner rerouted the wiring to get it out of the way for the camper conversion process. I eventually found the wiring connectors I had been looking for in the pillars behind the tail lights but accessible only from the outside of the van. I was still able to route the T-connector kit wires and converter inside the rear door pillars.
I had to remove the rear pressure vents on both sides of van to get into the pillars. The vents are above the tail lights and under some rear trim. If you have never removed the trim from above the tail lights I'd suggest adding that to a maintenance list for once in a while tasks. There were some pine needle and stuff behind the trim on my garage kept van. Additionally, one of the rubber louvers on one of the almost foot long pressure vents was being held open by some insect's abandoned cocoon.
I ended up destroying one pressure vent. It was brittle from age and it shattered as I tried to pull it out. The gasket was in good shape and I used it on the other pressure vent which came out in one piece but with the gasket in a few pieces.
I used Eterna bond tape to cover the hole where the now shattered pressure vent used to reside. Eterna bond tape is awesome, I wish you luck if you ever have to remove some! I have one pressure vent left in the rear now but as most conversion vans are sealed up pretty tight inside I think having one in my van is ok.
This post is getting kind of long so I'll sum up by saying the wiring is in place and everything is put back together inside the van and outside. The basic 4-way connector is now located by the hitch.
There's lots still left to do: install 7-way socket, 12v+ and ground wires and a brake controller and related wiring.